Pursed Lip Breathing

Posted in: Related topic by weddingcometrue | April 14th 2010 | no comments

When it comes to kids, we all agree that they are an endless source of tricks and gestures to obtain what they want. So, pursed lip breathing is something usual among the children. This situation is usually found on the spoiled children, because even if they are small and we think they don’t understand so much from the daily life of the adults, they know that the family loves them and will make all their wishes come true.

Pursed lip breathing is a trick used not only by kids but even by adults when they don’t manage to achieve something they want very much. Specialists in psychology say that this is something usual among people who think they are helpless or who want to achieve something without any efforts. In this category are included the children and the foxy adults, who think that in this way they will have what they want.

Often, pursed lip breathing is confused with the aspect that an allergy is giving to lips, that is usually fat lips, a sensation of swollen lips and other similar things, that for people who don’t know details about the person and don’t know that she suffers from an allergy, it may seem like pursed lip breathing.

Usually children are counting on the fact that the parents want to see them happy, and the little ones think that this means to make all their wishes come true. And because the parents can’t resist when they see their children begging them to buy the things they want so much.

On the other hand, pursed lip breathing when it comes to adults, specialists in psychology and specialists in social sciences say that if this gesture is used excessively, it may be a sign of a poor personality and this is a criteria especially for the managers who want to hire somebody or for the hired people that are having seasonal check of the personality and attitude related to the work.

So, for the managers these gestures are considered a big minus, because this gesture is a sign of a lack of ambition and persistence, and no manager wants these characteristics when it comes to his employees.

Pursed lip breathing can also be a sign of a lack of self-confidence, because when you see that a person often has this gesture, you certainly will think about her that it doesn’t has a daring personality and that person is not very sure when it comes to her decisions.

So, every day we find out that we can get to know someone not only for the way he talks, but also from the way he dresses, he acts, and so on.

That is why the way we dress and we show in front of people is almost the same important as the way we talk and we express our thoughts and ideas.