Read My Lips No New Taxes
Hearing deficiency makes one feel inferior, creates a complex as it feels different and abnormal in comparison with the others around. Apart from the self esteem a deaf person deals with hard mode of utterance. But as it is a well known fact that people with such deficiencies have others senses more developed, a deaf person has the ability to read lips.
Read lips becomes a reliable method of communicating, as not everybody knows the signs, the non verbal ones in order to make himself understood in a dialog with a deaf person. Consequently, the situation is saved, the discomfort disappears.
Unfortunately, read lips means a hard work. A deaf person has to improve its ability, as many words are very easily mingled. It requires patience, practice and a slowly conversation. By this I mean that when communicating with a deaf person if you want to make yourself understood you have to speak slowly and spell the words. Otherwise some words can be intercepted as an offense. For example, six can be easily confused with mix or parity with hilarity and many others situations similar to these.
Apart from these, read lips means also indiscretion. There are many situations when one tries to red one’s lips in order to find out a gossip or just to know people’s around discussions. It is rude, in as I was saying above if a person is not quite a “specialist” the words can be misunderstood.

Furthermore, read lips seems to be a method of communicating when silent is required. For example, in a meeting, in a library, when those who want to speak one to another are not close to each other read lips is an option. Sometimes just wanting to say “hello” or “call me” is saved by read lips. Now one may wonder why reading lips instead of making signs? Gestures are too obvious and one can get in the situation of being ludicrous. And so it is when it comes about a dialog with a deaf person. How can one gesticulate the fact that it needs to go to the bathroom for example? Consequently, if you do not know the deaf alphabet than you will rely on that person’s ability to read your lips.

Read lips have become nowadays an art, the art of expressing oneself. As Morse code can save your life in some situations so read lips can help you somehow. So that there are courses teaching this. Especially dedicated to deaf persons as a method of integrating in the society, many people with no hearing deficiency come. They are part of the family with deaf members or just wanting to experience something new, to learn something. And so, such classes seem to have success and to be very popular and looked for.
Written by weddingcometrue, date Jun 17, 2010 in Lips related
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